We see you...

You've read the books. You've tried the communication exercises. Maybe you've even been to therapy.

And yet... something's still missing.

Perhaps it feels like the spark has faded…

Or you started to feel like roommates, the sex isn’t as frequent or as passionate as it once was, the romance feels like it’s been lost.

You’re repeating the same arguments and feeling  exhausted despite the immense love you feel for one another.

Or, you’re single but you keep repeating the same patterns and attracting the same kind of partner who can’t fully meet you in the ways you deeply desire to be met. 

Here's what nobody tells you: You don't need more tips. You need a new operating system.

Most relationship advice gives you surface-level fixes - better date nights, active listening, love languages. Those are fine, but they're like rearranging furniture in a house with a cracked foundation.

EROS + Alchemy rebuilds the foundation.

Our Erotic Relational Operating System (EROS) gives you lifelong tools for creating the kind of healing, expansive, and consistently deepening love you desire. The kind where:

• You wake up and actually want to reach for your partner; not out of obligation, but genuine desire
• Conflicts become opportunities to connect more deeply instead of landmines that blow up your week
• You feel seen for who you actually are, not who you've been performing to be
• The sex gets better over time instead of fading into maintenance mode
• You trust yourself to navigate whatever comes, because you finally understand how relationships actually work

This 6-week training gives you a repeatable system for:

• Reigniting desire (without performing or forcing “spice”)

• Repairing conflict fast (so fights don’t steal days)

• Feeling real PASSION again (not just “functioning as roommates”)

• Breaking your pattern (if you’re single and keep choosing the same kind of partner)

WEEK 3 - Integration and Coaching 

In weeks 3 and 6 you receive additional support calls, live hot seat coaching and the ability ask questions on everything we've covered so far. 

Who we are

JD has spent over thirty years studying psychology, hypnosis, consciousness, and relational mastery. He has studied with leading relationship thinkers including David Deida, John Wineland, and the Gottmans. His work focuses on desire, polarity, and deep partnership.

Alyeria has spent twenty years exploring intimacy, relational power dynamics, and authentic relating within conscious relationship communities. She has studied with pioneers such as Allison Armstrong and Gay and Katie Hendricks.

"We met at Burning Man in 2024.

Our first year together was one of the most challenging and transformative experiences either of us had ever lived through.

We confronted our shadows.
We practiced everything we teach.
We built the relationship we once thought was impossible.

Now we help others do the same.

Not because we are special.

Because we learned and developed the system."